Meta-human Agent Orange Ascends to Seat of Power

Central City: To the dismay of many, meta-human Agent Orange, with his superpower, the ability to weave bullshit into the fabric of reality, has ascended to the national Seat of Power. Super Fly, 8-year holder of the Seat advises us, (barely suppressing a grin), to “Give him a shot,” as he watches Agent Orange, armed with his Twitter-blade, descend into the swamp to rid it of gators.

And it’s just as it should be. The Universe of Your Thoughts is always working for you and on your behalf.

And don’t mourn the Burning Man. He pointed out the possibilities.

As a metaphysician, I watched 4 years ago as the world was coming into a new era. I listened as the aliens, ghosts and gurus all told us that as we make the shift, people who resist the change will rise up in a last attempt to hold onto their perception of power. I now remember the role I vowed to play in this transition. I had become consumed in the waking nightmare of recent events like many others.

The evolution of consciousness, however, does not play out on debate stage nor is covered by the social media click-bait memes. Instead, it is the product of choosing better-feeling thoughts. Agent Orange, the Wicked Witch of the Left and their click-bait minions are merely projections of thoughts that are too painful to feel. They are contrasting thoughts, cast as the other, so we can look at them with relative objectivity, and say with certainty, “I don’t want that!” We then have opportunity to declare what we want instead.

Then we find the thought that feels better. And then we find the thought that feels better than that one. And the one that feels better than that. Thus, we shift our Universe.

Agent Orange is no longer aligned with the Universe of Your Thoughts. He no longer exists. The world has become a projection of your better feeling thoughts, and you have aligned yourself with the higher consciousness that has been foretold.

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Manifesting Money…er…I mean, Creating Cash

Hey Chip,

I have had success with manifesting small things like blue feathers, etc. For instance, few days back I was thinking about a movie and the very next day the movie was playing on HBO. But when it comes to money, I haven’t had success. I don’t get any inspired action when I sit back and relax.

I don’t have negative money beliefs either. I don’t think money is evil or anything, nor I am annoyed by rich people.

Your advice would be greatly appreciated.

Truth be told, I have trouble with manifesting money more any other topic, so I too am interested in what I am about to say.

Part of what is going on is that money is a theoretical concept. Money is the term used when we are thinking about a problem. I don’t have enough money. I need money to pay the bills. Money problems never exists in the here now.

Think about that for a second. You can say I have a money problem, but in reality right here right now, you don’t. Right here right now you are okay.

Now look back at the way you worded your question. Notice how the term money is theoretical. Notice how it has the vibration of a puzzle, a problem to be solved.

Compare that to “I want $199 to pay the electric bill.” You are wanting 199 cash-dollars. Cash dollars (Euros, Yen, Pesos) you can spend. Cash dollars you can hold. Cash dollars can be seen electronically in your bank account as pixels on a screen.

Money is a generalized representation that only exists in the past or future.

Cash is what you can hold in your hand right here right now.

When you focus on the problem of money, you are creating a money problem to solve. When you focus on the having of cash, you are creating the cash you are wanting.

So you might want to shift your visualization to the having of cash.

Now, about inspired action.

When you decide that you will actually have what you actually want, the Universe of your thoughts starts to rearrange itself to give you what you want. You don’t have to figure out how this works because the Universe of your thoughts is not limited by time. The instant you imagined the having of the cash you want, the Universe created it for you—along with the back story of how you got from where you are now to the having of your cash, taking into consideration all the thoughts and beliefs you hold about the topic. Your job is simply to follow the thoughts that feel better and to take any action that is easy and obvious.

Obviously, to move from the vibration of not having cash to the vibration of having cash requires a vibrational shift. What this means is that you will have to let go of thoughts and beliefs that are not in alignment with the having of cash and replace them with thoughts and beliefs that are in alignment with the having of the cash you want.

This is not difficult because your emotional guidance system handles this for you. The thoughts that are not in alignment with the having of the cash you want come to your attention because they feel bad. If you can allow these emotional messengers to be what they are, they will point out, in an easy and obvious way, the thoughts that stand in your way.

Notice that you don’t have to solve the problem of finding the thoughts about money that stand in your way. You don’t have to research, do inner energy work, or delve into your unconscious mind. Your emotional guidance system will deliver your unaligned thoughts to you served up on a silver platter.

Likewise, you don’t have to solve the problem of how to make money. So if you are are sitting on your couch looking for that inspired action of how you are going to make money, it’s not going to happen. Inspired action is not about making money.

Inspired action is about doing something that brings you into alignment with the having of the cash you want. Yes, you have to take some action. You might have to bend over to pick up a winning lottery ticket. You might have to respond to a job offer that allows you the opportunity to enjoy life more.

But a job is not how you make money. It is a vehicle through which the Universe of your thoughts delivers the cash you are creating. A business is not how you make money. It too, is a vehicle through which cash can come to you. But these are not the only ways cash can come to you. You can find it, inherit it, win it, get a tax rebate, receive it as a gift—and the list goes on and on to include an infinite number of possibilities you have never thought of.

You don’t have to figure out how the cash is going to come to you. That part was done the instant you created it. Your job is to decide what you want and allow it to happen.

Now some people don’t care about the having of cash. What they want is experiences. They might want the experience of owning a home or traveling on a cruise ship to Morocco. They might manifest easier if they just imagine the home or the trip. The process is the same as outlined above. Decide that you will have what you want, change the unaligned thoughts your emotions bring to your attention, and do what feels easy and obvious.

It’s not a matter of waiting for inspired action to hit you. It’s about doing what is easy and obvious. If you aren’t “inspired,” there is nothing for you to do right here right now. So do something else. Do something you enjoy. Do what is easy and obvious. When you are done, do the next thing that is easy and obvious.

Manifesting anything, once you have decided you will actually have what you actually want, is always about doing the next easy and obvious thing.

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Book Review: Deliberate Receiving by Melody Fletcher

Deliberate Receiving:

Finally, the Universe Makes Some Freakin’ Sense!


By Melody Fletcher

Available At Amazon

Paperback : $10.58

Kindle: $1.99

Whether you know just about everything there is to know about Law of Attraction (but still don’t have your stuff) or you are just starting to explore the idea that you might actually create your reality, this book has something for you. Melody just flat-out knows her stuff. In fact, she knows it so well that she can explain even the most difficult metaphysical concept in a way that is not only easily understandable, it is downright fun to read.

While most books I’ve seen on Law of Attraction are either: a) fluff, where the writer makes one undeveloped point over and over; or b) cliché, where the writer spouts misleading memes from the wisdom of the internet, both of which are trying to entice you purchasing their exorbitant programs, Melody gives you the complete package. She lays out the principles you need to understand your place in the manifestation process, then gives you practical techniques you can use change your vibration to align with what you are wanting. If you follow the well-thought out path she devised, you too can manifest the life of your dreams. No other purchases are needed.

One of the things I particularly liked was how she simplified Abraham’s emotional scale into clusters of emotions with vibrational similarities. She then gives specific techniques in how to rise from one emotional group to another. By simplifying, Melody makes aligning with the vibration of what you are wanting easier, and you walk away with the sense that you can actually have what you actually want. Of course, you still have to walk the path yourself. No one can do it for you.

Melody is well on her way to becoming a Law of Attraction superstar—one you should get to know. The place to start is buying and reading this book. It might be the best investment you ever make.

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Different Versions of People

Chip, I’d like your perspective on the following scenario:

We have Person A and Person B. They are both conscious creators. They are best friends.

Person A has a desire which Person B doesn’t resonate with, nearly at all, but understands allowing.

Person A aligns with their desire and manifests it.

In the case that Person B is now excited and happy for Person A:

Is person B a different version of themselves that reflects person A’s desire?

This question is like the Indian parable where 5 blind men are asked to describe an elephant. One grabs a leg and says the elephant is like a tree. One grabs the tail and says the elephant is like a snake. etc.

People are right based upon their perspective.

People who are physically-focused, at least on this planet, arrive with the idea that they are going to believe in time, permanence and continuity. From this we use the concept of time-lines to describe things. So when ghosts and aliens use the concept of parallel lives and parallel universes, they are creating metaphors to help us understand within our self-imposed limitations of time, permanence, and continuity.

Let’s assume this is a little ditty about Jack and Diane.

Starting with another metaphor, Diane desires something. There will always be a version of Diane that manifests that desire very quickly, and there will always be a version that delays the manifestation of that desire until after they die–with several in between. When a thought is given birth, a relationship exists between that thought and the person who gave birth to that thought. That relationship will be explored by both the thought and the person who gave birth to the thought from many different perspectives. But these are not parallel lives, because the relationship is vibrational, (like all relationships), and vibration is timeless. The relationship between Diane and her desire could be described using another metaphor–that of an explosion that instantly fills all parts of the universe.

So let’s pretend that you are Diane. You have an idea of who you are, which is, in reality, just one part of the entirety of YOU–an individual perspective.

In this relationship you have described, You have the idea who you are, the idea of the thought you gave birth to, and your idea of Jack (which is based upon your perception of Jack’s vibration).

So when you get your desire, your vibration changes relative to both the desire and Jack. Jack does not change, but your vibrational relationship with Jack now reflects an aspect of Jack you have not experienced before. In this case, you are aligning with an aspect of Jack that from your perspective, “understands allowing.”

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How to Live a Magical Life

Last night the sunset was special.

My wife and I have made a ritual of going out on the porch about 15 minutes before sunset and watching the sun descend over the Mingus Mountains. When the sun is blocked from view, colors erupt in the sky. Each sunset is unique. The cloud cover is different. The humidity is different. The amount of dust in the air is different. And every sunset evolves, starting with anything from a bright yellow to orange, transferring colors to clouds spreading from the area closest to the hot spot to the far horizon over the mountains of Sedona. (click images to enlarge)

But last night was special. Instead of the primary and secondary colors of reds, oranges, yellows, and blues, the sky was filled with pastels: pinks, violets, and pale yellows. The colors filled the sky from horizon to horizon, our vision limited only by the house wall that supports our perch above the trees. The pastels faded abruptly and we thought the show was over, but new colors emerged: rusty brown siennas and umbers. These colors spread highlighting the cloud textures undulating in waves created by thermal currents. The rusty brown colors stayed with us an hour or more and was joined by a sliver of moon whose dark side was defined by a faint glow. Then Venus appeared, then Mars, forming a gentle arc of a line. All this was accented by a high flying jet liner that navigated between the moon and Venus, its vapor tail still catching the direct sun and glowing Highlighter pink.

This is what Living a Magical Life is all about for Julie and me. When we moved to Arizona, we set the intention that the house we could afford would sit amongst beauty. Once set, the intention evolved so what we got was not our original intention—it was better!

You can live a Magical Life like ours as well, one created by your definition of magic. You can create a life where everything and everyone acts synchronistically, to your benefit, coming together with Disneyesce precision. It takes three steps:

  1. You imagine what a Magical Life would look like to you.
  2. You decide that you will actually live this Magical Life. (You set your intention.)
  3. You observe how you are already living a Magical Life.

Now I know some of you are thinking, “It’s easy for you. You live in a house above the trees with a sunset over the Mingus Mountains. It is easy to live a Magical Life when you live like that.”

Across the golf course from me is a row of condominiums. One young couple comes out from time to time, hold each other, and watch the sunset, but the rest of the condos glow from episodes of cop shows, newscasts, and bachelorettes getting married to people they have never met. To live a Magical Life you have to engage with it. Some people spend an entire lifetime building their dream, only to do what they have always done.

From right now, from where you are, you can move into your Magical Life. But you have to take the time to smell the jasmine when you take the dog out. You have to listen to the songs of the mockingbird, the finches, and the cardinals that blend together in a morning opus. You have to bask in the droning sea of crickets rubbing their legs together to attract their lovers in the cool of the night.

You just have to do the three steps and watch it evolve.

So the question is: Are you ready to live your Magical Life?

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Chip’s Sandbox

Sitting on the porch is something you can do year round in Arizona. It’s how I start my day. I drink my morning coffee, maybe smoke my pipe, and I look for what feels better for me to do that day. In the summer, I sit in the shade and look across Russel Wash at the golf course and the mountains of Sedona. In the winter, I see my front yard and the hill that marks the border of the Coconino National Forest. My front yard is on the plain side. It looks like this: (click photos to enlarge)

Most of this winter, I’ve been imagining what I want my front yard to look like. Across the street, my neighbor had built a garden he had terraced with rock walls and I secretly coveted his creation. So I set about imagining what my yard could look like. And I came up with a plan. Not far from here is Tuzigoot National Monument. It is a city complex in ruins, that well, looks like a series of tumble-down rock walls. I thought I would make sort of a replica called Tsuziquoot, and add plants and fun features that stayed with in the ancient ruins theme.

And then I realized that I had all the materials I needed to build it, for free, within a couple blocks of my house. I could dig the stones out of the wash, get fill dirt from where dozers had pushed the dirt off the road after the monsoon flooding, and get compost fertilizer from the local horse ranches. So last week I got started building my dream. Here is the first batch of rocks I gathered to start the project.

Running parallel to this I have had a dream to build a Law of Attraction community, where people could learn metaphysical principles, get help creating their dreams, and just have a fun place to meet. It would have a blog and a forum, and I would support it by doing what I love to do, writing and answering Law of Attraction questions. And like the wall, I found that I had all the things I needed to put this together for free. I have already written several books/eBooks, and the software I needed for the community was all available through open source.

However, the idea of this community became complicated by the fact that I was running out of money. The moving company that moved our stuff across county ended up charging us 3 times their estimate, and the bank selling us our house dragged its feet until we had to rent a hotel, and put our furniture into long-term storage. The cushion my wife and I had built into our moving plans was suddenly gone. So now, it seemed, building my community was needed to bring money into our house for stuff like food.

It is funny how the idea of money can change the nature of things..

So for the last two months, I have been laying the foundation for this new community. I programmed the forum. Cleaned up some of my books and re-offered them for sale. And I finished my first full-length book, The Whole Banana: Law of Attraction on the Rocks with a Twist—at least as far as I could. I need to come up with $2000 to get it edited.

The thing is, all of these tasks were fun at the time I did them. I was following my intuition compass. I was doing what felt better in the moment. Oh sure, I had frustrating times, like when I tried to format my forum during the Mercury Retrograde—whatever that is. But for the most part, things just flowed naturally in a create flow. Still, I launched my new and improved community, and only a handful of people came.

So today, I was sitting on my porch looking at what Julie calls Chip’s Sandbox. I have put several days work into it and all I had to show for it was a short low section of wall. But then I realized that most of the work I had done was in setting the foundation stones. These are the stones at the base of the wall that support the wall. They have to be dug in and set straight so that wall doesn’t crumble or wander all over the place. These rocks are the hardest to install, yet you see very little of them if any. The easy part is stacking the rocks on top of the foundation. It is a just matter of letting go and expecting the right size and shape of rock to be there.

And then I realized that I have already set the foundation stones for my community. So now my job is to let go and allow the right people to come and enjoy my site. The right people will come and get the ball rolling. The right people will come and start discussions on my forum. The right people will ask questions for my blog. And a certain number of these people will even book coaching sessions simply because it will be the path of least resistance for them.

And all I have to do is play in my sandboxes.

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Managing vs Allowing Your Creation

Taken from a response on another venue.

Okay, most of you are going to look at this topic and go, “Pfft! Allowing definitely.” But I think it bears looking into. Managing is simply natural to us, in that it is drilled into us by the totality of our society. We are taught problem solving in school. So if we want a new iPhone, you define the problem: It will cost me $450. Then you start looking for solutions. I could take a loan. I could get a second job. I could find someone with an iPhone, shout, “Look-up there!” grab the phone and split before he knew what hit him.

Managing is most a problem when you think you have to figure out how something is going to occur. An example of this might be that you want a gazillion dollars and you believe that you have to sell a bazillion widgets to get it. You are more or less distracting yourself, because what you want is the cash and you have no interest in the process of selling widgets. So you placing your attention on something you don’t want to get what you do want and it doesn’t work out so well.

It is important to realize that the Universe is not an entity that works on your behalf–although it is is and it does–it’s more like it is passive and rearranges itself to fit your vibration. It’s not that it is smarter than you, knows more etc. Rather it is working with bringing you the totality of what you are wanting. So if your desire is to have a nice home, a BMW, a great relationship and an engaging pastime, it is forming around the entirety of that thought. But when you say, I need money first, all the rest gets moved to the back burner. And if you say I have to sell a bazillion widgets, then what you are really wanting is moved even further back, and you are focusing on something you don’t want–selling widgets–instead of having what you actually want.

The fastest way to get what you want is to follow the path of least resistance, the thoughts that feels better, your emotional guidance system, your intuition compass. In other words, you allow the Universe to rearrange itself so that you have it.

You see, the instant you imagine what you want, you create it. And since that creation is vibrational, it is outside of time. This means that when you create it, you also create the back-story on how you got it. This back story takes into account, all your thoughts and self-imposed limitations. So basically, you have it no matter what. The fastest way to get to it is to ride the energy to it, by following your intuition. Allow it. If it feels better or like relief, you are on the right path. Trying to manage it almost always offers resistance.

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I’ve been busy lately which is why my blog posts have been few and far between. In addition to getting my book ready for print, I have found a couple other projects I want to tell you about.

First of all, I was consolidating my computer files and came across the eBooks I have written in the last decade or so. These books were well-received, but are now gathering virtual dust in deep storage. I found the guru Teal Swan because she quoted a passage from Your Intuition Compass in one of her videos. My daughter saw the quote and showed it to me. The EFT Quick-Start Method is my most popular book to date, and has been translated into 4 languages. So I’ve been dusting them off and putting them back out there on Chip’s Bookshelf.

Second, I’ve always wanted a forum where people could chat about Law of Attraction and help each other out with their challenges. I had a forum in the past, but I didn’t like the software, and didn’t put much into it. Now I have found a new program that I have been able to customize to my liking.

If you were a member of the old forum, you will need to re-register. Sorry.

The Beach Fire Law of Attraction Forum is brand new and there are only a few users. I invite you to be brave and be among the first posters. You don’t have to start sharing all your secrets, but if you come by and just say howdy, you’ll be helping me out by getting the ball rolling. Thanks, I appreciate it.

I’m Falling in Love with Contrast

No we haven’t gotten physical yet.

It started out extremely rocky. Talk about a couple drama queens. Contrast would get all scary and I spent years tapping out a HopoPocoLoco Sedona Method Shadow Dance about it. I literally spent three years trading EFT sessions with people. I got so core that I could see my seeds.

I learned about my childhood, my babyhood, and all the distorted and all the weird things I think that were not serving me. I probably took it too far, because if you go looking for weird deep dark issues, Law of Attraction makes sure you’ll find them. My contrast was right there with me, fighting me every step of the way. Or maybe I was fighting it. I’m sure there was enough blame to go around. I blamed my mother, my father, my culture, my school, and my government. But it really didn’t get me anywhere. Not that it wasn’t justified. In fact, everything I felt was perfect, a perfect reflection of the thoughts I was thinking.

But that all changed. I changed. Paul, the Communion of Light, says that everything and everyone is here to serve you. If that’s true, then Contrast is here to serve me. The most obvious way is that it points out to me thoughts that are not in alignment with the truth of who-I-am. I have thought this for a couple of years, but it is not fun. Bad-feeling thoughts don’t feel good, even if they are helpful.

But lately, my relationship with contrast has evolved again. Now Contrast is helping me by keeping me on track. As I go through my day, focused on what I am wanting, Contrast gives me a nudge whenever my thoughts start to stray. So if I am sitting on my porch thinking about how I want my front yard to look, and I start to think about how I will be able to afford it, Contrast reminds me that I have strayed from my creation.

When I am thinking about how people will find out about my new book, Contrast reminds me that I don’t need to know how people will find it, the Universe will sort that out, I just need to know that I have decided that they will.

I like this new version of Contrast. No, I’m going to say it. I love this new version of Contrast.

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I’ve been busy lately which is why my blog posts have been few and far between. In addition to getting my book ready for print, I have found a couple other projects I want to tell you about.

First of all, I was consolidating my computer files and came across the eBooks I have written in the last decade or so. These books were well-received, but are now gathering virtual dust in deep storage. I found the guru Teal Swan because she quoted a passage from Your Intuition Compass in one of her videos. My daughter saw the quote and showed it to me. The EFT Quick-Start Method is my most popular book to date, and has been translated into 4 languages. So I’ve been dusting them off and putting them back out there on Chip’s Bookshelf.

Second, I’ve always wanted a forum where people could chat about Law of Attraction and help each other out with their challenges. I had a forum in the past, but I didn’t like the software, and didn’t put much into it. Now I have found a new program that I have been able to customize to my liking.

If you were a member of the old forum, you will need to re-register. Sorry.

The Beach Fire Law of Attraction Forum is brand new and there are only a few users. I invite you to be brave and be among the first posters. You don’t have to start sharing all your secrets, but if you come by and just say howdy, you’ll be helping me out by getting the ball rolling. Thanks, I appreciate it.

Should I Make the First Move?

Hi Chip,

I met a great guy about 6 months ago and we’ve become friends. We work together and hang out in a group setting every weekend. I really like him and would love to be with him, and there are signs that he likes me too (including a mutual friend of ours telling me she can tell he likes me). The problem is, I don’t know for sure if he likes me or not. He is kind of a shy guy, and I keep hearing that if I want to be with him, I’ll have to make the first move. But I’m not willing to do this, because I’m convinced that he may say no and I will be crushed. I flip-flop between “going for it” by putting in effort to text him and talk to him to “show my interest” and throwing in the towel by attempting to forget about him and move on. Ironically, I seem to get his attention the most when I’m not trying so hard to show him that I like him.

I’m scared that if I don’t take action in the form of spilling my guts to him about my feelings, that I may not get the chance to be with him. Recently, another girl in our friend group has been pursuing him relentlessly, and they have gotten very close. I asked him if they were together, and he said she’s just a good friend. But I’m afraid he may end up with her over me since she’s willing to put herself out there while I’m too scared.

I’m not quite sure what to do. I feel the best when I’m not worrying about it and kind of doing my own thing, but at the same time this almost feels like I’ve resigned myself to not being with him out of fear.

Hi,

Here is the short answer right here.

I feel the best when I’m not worrying about it and kind of doing my own thing

This is when you are in alignment with having what you are actually wanting. The rest is conflicting thoughts that are not in alignment with who you are. There is nothing wrong with you and there is nothing you have to fix. There is no problem to solve. You simply have an idea of how you want to live and when you decide what you want, thoughts that you already hold that stand in your way present themselves so you can choose what you want instead.

If you just go about the business of enjoying your experience, there may come a time when you are inspired to take some action whether it be inviting him to join you on a walk, or simply leaving one of your social gatherings that has become uncomfortable. If no inspired action arises at any given time, then it is not the right time to take action. Think of it like this. You don’t get on the subway until it has come to a full stop at the station and the doors have opened. You will know when it is time to take action because it will seem like the natural and easy thing to do.

You are right here right now in the place you want to be. You have created this situation because you know what it is you want. You know that you have clusters of thoughts that you don’t like and you have created this situation so that you can put them right in front of your face. You did this to give yourself the opportunity to decide that you don’t want to live your life the way you have been. Forcing yourself to do or not do some course of action won’t have the long-term result you are intending.

You have a fear of rejection. You have been taught that the way you deal with fear is to man-up and just do it. This is a social template you have grown up with. But you created everything about your physical experience including your version of the guy you like. Since you created this guy, the only person who can reject you is you.

Let this settle in for a minute.

This fear of rejection permeates your life doesn’t it? It effects your social relationships, your business relationships, even the simple things like whether you have a glass of wine with dinner.

Again there is nothing wrong with you. You are just employing a strategy that you used a long time ago because at that time, it felt like relief to do so. It fit the circumstances then, but now you have evolved in your thinking and that strategy no longer works. It is simply time to take notice and make a new decision. And yes, there will be some some fear, but it will be the fear of change, not the fear of rejection. You will notice that the fear of change feels like relief when you compare it to the fear of rejection.

It’s okay that you feel exactly the way you do. Your feelings are simply there to point you to these clusters of thoughts that conflict with what you want. Let yourself feel them. Relax and let them show themselves to you along with the thoughts you hold. They are just thoughts. Let it be okay that you once thought that way and let them evolve away from you.

If you can’t be okay with these thoughts, then let it be okay that you are not okay with them. Just find a way to soften them so they are not as important. It could be that these thoughts are so ingrained that they stay with you your entire life, but that is okay too. If you can be okay that you think that way, they become less important every time they arise until they have no real effect on anything. You become like, “Oh, there’s those thoughts again. How interesting. Can you pass the potatoes?”

Now back to the guy. Enjoy your time with him and let the relationship evolve. You will either be with him the way you want, or a relationship that is more in alignment with who you are will present itself. You simply cannot fail. Relax. Things are getting better and better and better.

 

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Chip

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Am I just masking the problem?

Hey Chip!

A lot of times I will become heated, feel irritated or become generally charged up at things I read online. Things like bigotry, hate, racism, etc. I do recognize that these are reflections of my internal world and I do try to honor them as such, and ideally I will use them as opportunities to shift how I feel about them.

My question is in relation to action. One of my biggest triggers was the youtube comments section. Inevitably during any video I loved or found controversial, I would find myself automatically scrolling down and soaking up the comments; almost always to my detriment.

So what I did yesterday was install an add-on on my browser that blocked the comments altogether! Hey-presto! Now when I’m watching a video and scroll down, the comments are gone and I breathe a sigh of relief knowing I didn’t fall into that trap. It seems I have brought myself some ease and curbed the triggers. Or have I?

Now, the action I took has seemingly separated me from what I was feeling, but given my understanding of LOA – have I really solved anything? I was attracting those kind of feelings and triggers, so will they now just arise elsewhere?

Is there any practical use to what I did at all? Have I made any real difference to my experience and how I will feel in the long run?

Congratulations. You did everything perfectly. Not that you could have gotten anything wrong, but in terms of being a master manifester you were magnificent.

You experienced contrast. I hate bigotry. You honored that feeling, became okay with it, and it evolved away from you. From this contrast you made a decision. I want to experience YouTube without offending comments. In alignment with who you are, you found a piece of software, an idea that would create the very circumstance you were wanting. Using inspired action, you shifted your reality to actually have what you actually wanted.

You know it was in alignment with the truth of who you are because of the relief it brought you.

If and when you need to address more beliefs that you hold about the general topic of racism, you will have the opportunity. But in this case, you made a solid move in creating the reality you want to live in.

Time to pop the champagne corks

Please scroll down to comment or ask a clarifying question. Doing so helps me build a community that will allow me to help more people.

If you have a question you can use the Ask Chip link in the About Chip section or follow the Beach Party to the on-line forum.

If you want a one-on-one Surf Session with me, book it above and then at the end you pay what you think it was worth. If you get have an aha moment while reading a blog post or getting a question answered in a forum, consider honoring and valuing it by dropping what you think it was worth to you in Mr. Piggy to the right. This is me being the change in the world I want to see.

Chip

(c)2014 Chip Engelmann